On the eve of Thanksgiving, I want to pause to reflect on a few of the many things for which I hope to one day be thankful for.
I hope to be thankful for a movement that swept this nation that helped all kids finally feel safe and secure in their schools. For legislation that helped to make bullying not only illegal, but socially unacceptable so all children, no matter how far "off from normal," can be confident that they’ll be protected against physical and verbal abuse. They will take hope in their peers now wearing purple once each year in memory of those whose lives were lost or destroyed due to bullying, not to protest an on-going problem.
I hope to be thankful that no one can be legally fired from a job just because they’re gay, lesbian, or gender non-conforming. The passage of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act of 201? will cap a long, hard battle led by openly LGBT members of Congress and their many straight allies who believe in justice and equality.
I hope to be thankful to those LGBT citizens openly serving in the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines and Coast Guard, and the brave activists who made their service possible with the repeal of DODT in late 2010.
I hope to be thankful that I live in a nation that fully understands that the right to basic health care is fundamental, and a sign of a compassionate society.
Mostly, I hope to be thankful to live in a country that accepts and values the relationship I have with Brad – and that we are both parents to our beautiful son, Kyler. I hope to say that not so many years ago, I feared he would live in a country where fear and bias prevented loving and committed same-sex couples from marrying, and where he’d be subject to ridiculous ideas that his family didn’t have the same value as others.
I am thankful today, however, for Brad and my son......my family. Each day I wake up and feel blessed in so many beautiful ways. I have love in my heart that also has a home in the hearts of two others. I am also thankful for all of my friends and family who have supported us and continue to support us as we build our family. We couldn't have done it without you!
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Help Send Kathy to Hawaii
Remember my friend, Kathy (Graddy) Barr? Well, they've entered a contest to send her to Hawaii for her 40th birthday. Currently, they are in first place, but they have some stiff competition right on their heels. If you can take a moment to vote for their family photo (Currently PHOTO #5, with WSU Cougar gear on), it would be appreciated! Here are the instructions:
To register
http://komo4tv.upickem.net/engine/Details.aspx?PageType=APPROVED&contestid=20016
You can vote each day, but even just one day will really help. To vote each day, follow this link:
To register
http://komo4tv.upickem.net/engine/Details.aspx?PageType=APPROVED&contestid=20016
- Near the top, click on the red "Register Now" button
- Fill out the fields with red asterisks next to them. You'll need to make up a username and password to use just for voting on this site. You don't need to enter your street address or any information that doesn't have the red asterisk by it. Make sure you check the box that says "Please don't give out my email address..."
- Submit your information
- You'll get an email very shortly. Open it and click the link in it to verify that your email address is really yours, and now you're registered.
You can vote each day, but even just one day will really help. To vote each day, follow this link:
- Log into your account at the top of the screen
- Click on "Vote" in the brown bars at the top of the screen
- Hit "next" until you see our picture, we should be picture number 5
- Under our picture, click on "Save vote"
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Best "Tequila Christmas Cake" Ever!!!!

Even if you can't cook, this is fast and simple and sooooooo YUMMY!
Prep Time: 10 MinutesCook Time: 1 Hour
Ready In: 1 Hour 10 MinutesYields: 6 servings
"If you love desserts and you also love margaritas, this is the perfect dessert for you……..just in time for the holidays! The ingredients are simple. You can use any kind of tequila, but the better the quality the better the cake. HOWEVER, do follow the instructions step-by-step…..there’s potential for disaster if a step is missed….there’s little room for error. ENJOY!”
INGREDIENTS:
1 cup of water
1 cup of water
1 tsp baking soda
1 cup of sugar
1 tsp salt1 cup of brown sugar
Lemon juice
Lemon juice
4 large eggs
Nuts
1 bottle tequila
2 cups of dried fruit
- DIRECTIONS:
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F (165 degrees C). Grease a 9” pan with butter or nonstick spray. - Sample the tequila to check quality. Take a large bowl, check the tequila again. To be sure it is of the highest quality, pour one level cup and drink. Repeat. Turn on the electric mixer. Beat one egg. Beat again. At this point it's best to make sure the tequila is still OK. Try another cup...just in case.
- Turn off the mixerer thingy. Break 2 leggs and add to the bowl and chuck in the cup of dried fruit. Pick the frigging fruit up off floor. Mix on the turner. If the fried druit gets stuck in the beaterers just pry it loose with a drewscriver. Sample the tequila to check for tonsisticity.
- Next, sift two cups of salt. Or something. Check the tequila. Now shift the lemon juice and strain your nuts. Add one table. Add a spoon of sugar, or somefink. Whatever you can find. Greash the oven. Turn the cake tin 360 degrees and try not to fall over. Don't forget to beat off the turner. Finally, throw the bowl through the window. Finish the tequila and wipe counter with the cat.
- Enjoy! Merry Christmas!!!
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